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I've had this sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach all day. We all went about our regular Saturday business: chores with plenty of play and rest interspersed. But something was different, off. And then I realized what made today different than any other Saturday.

Alex is going home tomorrow.

Home. Home. There's a part of me that cringes at this realization. Even though we accepted him with open arms into our home, he has a separate place that he calls home...far, far away from us. Maybe I subconsciously tricked myself into believing it, but I feel like he's my son, my child, the little brother Aisling should have had. With each comment from others in stores about my cute kids and the continual assumption by the people around us that they are brother and sister (and I guiltily admit that I hardly ever corrected anyone past our circle of friends), I forgot that I would have to give him back.

He took this picture with his camera on the timer setting. I just found it today, because he asked me to download all of his pictures from his visit and burn them to a CD for him.

Oh, how I love my children! I'm really going to miss my little boy.

Comments

Sarah said…
Sad! That's great that he's such a part of your family! Maybe you'll have better luck next year convincing Ashli Alex is really your son. :>
July 27, 2009 at 10:09 PM
Kim said…
Hi Whitni! How fun to catch up on your life. Can't wait to read more.
July 29, 2009 at 2:35 PM
Marilyn Tibbitts said…
Wow, They have both grown so much. How fun that Alex was able to come spend the summer with you guys. Looks like youn all had a lot fun. That swamp looks awesome. Next time we come to Louisianna I want to check that out.
July 30, 2009 at 1:22 PM
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